Saturday, 21 March 2015

9 THINGS TO DO TO SECURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP



If you want to change your relationships for the
better, you are better to look through this list:
maybe you are doing something wrong.
1. Suspecting him
Vast of Nigerian women are sure that their men are
going to leave them for anither woman. That's why
they can easily flip out when their significant other
just looks (or looks like he is looking) or talks to
another women. When you are doing such thing a
guy might think you are unsecured. So try to
develop your self esteem and remember that all
relationships are based on trust.
2. Respect his space
If your boy is in a bad mood and don't want to
discuss it try not to make him even more angry.
Some men don't like to speak about their troubles
and feelings so leave him alone. And remember
about trust.
3. Forgetting about their selves
If you are in a long-term relationships it isn't mean
you can stop shave your legs or stop being the
person you were at the beginning of your love story.
You both should make efforts to keep the attraction.
4. Don't reject your life
It is sad when a girl forgets about her hobbies and
friends when she starts dating. It never ends
happily. If he loves you he will not stop you from
things that are important for you.
5. Be honest
Never be passive aggressive. It annoys a lot. If
something is bothering you tell about it. Men are
not mind-readers. They will probably not
understand your secret tips or telepathic
messages. If you wants something tell about it!
6. Don't nag
No guy in the whole universe is able to give you
every single thing you want. Of course sometimes
you will not be happy about something he does. And
again: it is always better to tell strictly about your
desires. To harp over him is a worse idea.
7. Appreciate your boyfriend
Appreciate him for things that he is doing. The more
you will tell him how valuable he is the more he will
try to please you.
8. Be positive
There is no sense to blame him when he is not
guilty. Each one of us has bad days, but it is better
to try to be positive. It is not to cool to hang out with
somebody who is grumpy. Except you are a
Grumpy Cat, but probably you are not.
9. Fight with your insecurities
Yours not perfect skin or broken diet should not be
turned into relationships problems. Unless he
brought a big cake while you are on a diet.
he is with you now, that means he thinks you are
pretty and attractive.
The main thing about love is that you take a person
for who she or he is. Not the one you are dreaming
him to be. You better take it or leave it. When it
concern some minor things like toilet seat or
clothes you just can try to be more gentle and
encouraging. Don't try to make him feel stupid. Just
make him to do the right decision on his own, he
just need a little encouragement.

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